The Dystantfunctional Community – Pt. 1
If you are reading this blog, you probably go to church. Great. If not, you’re welcome at mine. But how integral is the church in your week? Month? Day? Year? I don’t mean the church service. When I say church, I am not saying ‘the service’ that occurs on Sunday morning, but the community. The body of people that are gathering with you to worship the Triune God, rejoice in the person and work of Christ and be equipped for ministry by the ministering of the Word of God.
How integral is the community in your life?
You may even be apart of another gathering outside of Sunday morning, maybe a community group, a small group, a men’s or women’s group, maybe an generation/age specific group (high school/college/singles/ etc…); but consider, how involved are you in those peoples life and they in yours?
Are you in a distant community? You are close but not close. Are you in a dysfunctional community? You meet with people, but it’s not working the way God intended? This would be a Dystantfunctional Community.
In my quick readings of the book of Acts, you can see that the Believers did not meet just once or twice a week. But they met every day, and real ministry (not just coffee or gossip) occurred. They were not only close, but healthy.
- “And day by day attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes.” Acts 2:46. They were in each others homes all the time. This is incredibly rare in our day and age.
- “No one said that any of the things that belonged to him was his own…There was not a needy person among them.” Acts 4:32-37. The really practiced “mi casa es su casa.” No one had need.
- Concerning the apostles ministry, “Every day, in the temple and from house to house, they did not cease teaching and preaching Jesus as the Christ.” Acts 5:42. I love this because, you can tell from the text there were enough people at the temple every day for the apostles to preach to and the believers were having the apostles in their homes to preach to them about Jesus. When’s the last time you invited a pastor over to teach about Jesus in your home? If someone in my church called and said, “Hey Jeff, were gonna have a some bbq tomorrow and some friends over, could you come and talk about Jesus?” I’d be there with bells on.
- “…widows were being neglected in the daily distribution.” Acts 6:1. Amazing! There was a ministry that happened every single day. People were getting, to use a phrase from Paul Helbig, ‘eyeball to eyeball’ to meet needs of their brothers and sisters.
Americans are very independent people. Our country was established on rebellion and independence. We don’t like control, we don’t like to watched. Good grief, people are complaining about full body scanners at airports for safety reasons. Part of our problem is that our society and culture is moving farther and farther away from a cohesive family unit. When is the last time you and your whole family sat and ate breakfast and dinner together, not in front of the TV? It’s not a sin to not do so, but it might be telling of how we are practices are changing. We are Christians before we are Americans.
What has gotten us away from the kind of practice that we see in the early church? Now, I’m not advocating for communal living or even that we have to have a Bible study everyday, not that that would be bad, I think it would be great actually. There should at least be some face to face, eyeball to eyeball interaction with fellow believers. We are a community, not a club. We should examine our current practice, and see if we need to make some changes. So, what got us here?
In the book, Total Church by Tim Chester and Steve Timmis, they give a great metaphor that helps reveal some of the issues of a dystantfunctional community. Some Christians view the church as another ball that gets juggled in their life. There is the work ball, kids activities ball, gym ball, marriage ball etc…and all of these items require time and attention and some take precedence over others at time. The problem, however, is that the Christian community (the church), is treated like another ball, and gets juggled around and even loses out at times. The local church, the community, is apart of our identity in Christ, and sits at the center of everything we do. This shift in thinking, would do wonders for our communities.
Far too many believers are in Dystantfunctional Communities and they go undiagonosed. Tomorrow, signs of a Dystantfunctional Community.
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